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First date sex pros and cons
There is a lot of emphasis on first-date sex. Should you,
shouldn't
you? Will he think I am a tart? Do I really want to wake up to him? Do I want
to see him again? Here are a list of pros and cons on first-date sex.
First date sex pros
You need to test him to see if he can live up to your expectations
in the sack. After all you don't want to fall for him only to find out he
doesn't
have a clue how to please a woman.
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You think this is "The One," so why hold back?
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You want to serve him breakfast in bed
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You've never had a one night stand and want to experience it just
once.
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You have just had your legs and bikini line waxed, a full body tan and are feeling
and looking your best.
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You need the exercise and don't want to pay for the gym.
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You feel less inhibited with a virtual stranger.
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Sex makes you feel confident.
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Hey sex is great fun.
First date sex cons
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He might think of you as easy, a tart.
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If he is worth it you can wait.
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He doesn't look as attractive in the morning and neither do you.
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You wake feeling vulnerable.
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You may not respect each other.
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One-night stands last one night.
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Fast in, fast out.
Make sure you are a hundred percent ready before you go for it
and remember it is never to late to say NO...
Relationship Advice: First Date Sex? Should You?
Author: Terry Hernon MacDonald
Everybody on TV seems to be tumbling into bed on the first date these days, but should you? Absolutely not, and I don't care if you've been celibate since 1996.
Here's why:
1. Chances are, you've just met the guy. You know nothing about him, let alone whether he bathes daily, or if he's one of those losers who picks his nose at stoplights.
2. My OB/GYN estimates that two out of five people are walking around with Herpes Simplex
II. Some of them don't even know it. Do you want to become one of the two out of five?
3. If you have sex with a guy on a first date, how do you know that he doesn't leap into the sack with every other woman he meets? Do you really want to get involved with someone that easy?
He doesn't make quality boyfriend or husband material.
All right then, how about third-date sex?
You may really be ripe for action, but I still advocate waiting. You can learn a lot more about a man (without clouding your judgment) if you keep sex out of the equation until the time is right. And waiting builds passion!
You're less likely to have bad sex with a man you've taken your time with than with some clown you hit the sheets with too soon.
Of course, you risk being dumped if you don't hop into bed right away with certain guys. But think about it: Wouldn't you rather be dumped than be saddled with someone who's so utterly superficial and self-involved?
You deserve better.
About the author: Terry Hernon MacDonald is the author of "How to Attract and Marry the Man of Your Dreams." Visit her website at
http://www.marrysmart.com
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